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Sunday Sermon and Some Special Smiles

19 Feb

“Sometimes when you sacrifice something precious, you’re not really losing it. You’re just passing it on to someone else.”

Mitch Albom, The Five People You Meet in Heaven


I was able to attend Mass at Mom’s place this morning. It was surreal, being there without her, yet, I knew she was there in spirit. Tom, the volunteer, had some very kind words and memories to share about Mom. Everyone was sad and shared their condolences and hugs. My son, daughter-in-law and beautiful baby joined us for the service. It was very special.

They were looking for a volunteer to read the second scripture reading for today. I was thrilled because Mom always used to say the second reading for many years. I was honored.

Reading 2

1 PT 3:18-22


Christ suffered for sins once,

the righteous for the sake of the unrighteous,

that he might lead you to God.

Put to death in the flesh,

he was brought to life in the Spirit….

The reading continued with sacrifice, death, and now sitting at the right hand of God. My take on it….we sacrifice for those we love, and God so loved the world that he sacrificed His son. Love doesn’t have to be painful, but we should be willing to share and sacrifice for our loved ones, and also for our friends and neighbors, and even strangers. If everyone “Loved their neighbor” the world would be a wonderful place. Until that happens, you and I can do our part in our own little corner of the world.

After Mass, we went back to Mom’s and looked through pictures and talked and shared memories. The baby was so cute. When I look at her, I am reminded of my sweet Mom and how much she loved her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. The legacy lives on.

Saturday:) Sorting Through the Photos and the Memories

18 Feb

“A good photograph never belongs to the past; every time you look at it, it is with you, it is alive and it is in the present moment!”

Mehmet Murat ildan


I’ve been sorting through hundreds of Mom’s photos,realizing that she neatly organized them in absolutely no form or fashion. There are dozens envelopes secured with ancient rubber bands, and a few small albums with artwork and art shows. They were in a bunch of file boxes. The photos are interspersed with pictures from the 70’s, mixed in with recent great-grand-baby pictures, and a few copies of faded wedding pictures from the 40’s, all mixed together. No time line. Then, my sister informed me that that was just the pile in the top part of the cabinet. There are hundreds more in the lower cabinet.

I decided to sort as many as I could in a few boxes into several categories. Family, friends, artwork, the place where she lived, and then her individual pictures of her alone.

This is going to take a very long time. Not only am I trying to organize the pictures, I’m looking at each one and remembering each event. It’s like a movie newsreel that jumps all over the place. I have become a “time traveler.”

The one common theme in all the photographs is, “My mother was an amazing woman.”

Friday:) From One Angel to Another

17 Feb

You should never feel alone there’s always someone to turn to, it is the Guardian Angel who is watching over you.

K. Sue


Just when I thought my tears were safely tucked away for a while, I opened my phone to check my email and texts. I noticed a new photo post from my son and daughter-in-law. It was my beautiful granddaughter, sitting next to my Mom at Christmas time. Mom was reading her a story. That was less than two months ago, and now Mom is in heaven. Look how intently she’s looking at and listening to her great-grandma. Not only does she bear a strong resemblance, but she bears Mom’s name for her own middle name. We are so blessed to keep her name and legacy in the family.


I know Mom will be watching over this little angel.

Tuesday:) Take a Picture

14 Feb

Every picture tells a story

Every story shares a life

Some are joyful memories

Some are filled with pain and strife

A glimpse into the future

Or a stroll back from the past

Every picture tells a story

Take a picture, make it last.

~ Toni Armenta Andrukaitis


Today, I wanted to share a special picture that tells a story. I know what the background story is… but I ain’t tellin’. You have to use your own imagination. It’s a happy one. So, next time you share a photo with someone, think about just sharing it without explanation or captions. It’s fun. Write your own story.

Montage Monday:) A Week in a Peek

12 Feb

“When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching — they are your family. ”

Jim Butcher


Another week in Chicago, actually Elgin, but close enough. Another week of snow and cold and hibernating like a polar bear. The best part is the opportunity to hold Mom close like a polar bear.

A week in a chilly Chicago peek.

Friday:) FaceTime Family Faces

3 Feb

“Old words are reborn with new faces.”

~ Criss Jami Killosophy


Mom and I got to FaceTime with her great-granddaughter tonight. She gave us that cute backward wave.

A couple of old faces chatting with a new little face. Isn’t she adorable?

She’s starting to take a few steps. I’m sure she’ll be running before we know it.

I love being a grandma, even if it isn’t face-to-face. A picture is worth a million words.

Thank you technology.

Montage Monday:) A Week in a Peek

30 Jan

“Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it’s at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.”

~Earl Nightingale


Another week. This week didn’t have too much exciting to shout from the rooftops. But, like the quote says, “Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.”

A week in a peek.